Tim's mom sent this e-mail to me.  I thought it was so nice that I wanted to post it here.
PS - I love all of you, my daughters, daughters-in-law, sister, sisters-in-law, mother-in-laws and friends and relatives who share the title of "Mother" with me (and those who don't)!
After  17 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another  woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, 'I  love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would  love to spend some time with you.
The other woman  that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been  alone for 20 years, but the demands of my work and my two  boys had made it possible to visit her only  occasionally.  That night I called to invite her to  go out for dinner and a movie.
'What's wrong,  aren't you well,' she asked?  My mother is the type  of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise  invitation is a sign of bad news.
'I thought it  would be pleasant to spend some time with you,' I  responded. 'Just the two of us.'  She thought about it for a  moment, and then said, 'I would like that very much.'
That Friday after work, as I drove over to  pick her up I  was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed  that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She  waited in the door. She had curled her hair and was wearing  the dress that she had worn to celebrate her  last birthday on November 19th.  She smiled from  a face that was as radiant as an angel's. 'I told my  friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they  were impressed,' she said, as she got into that new white  van. 'They can't wait to hear about our date'.
We  went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very  nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the  First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her  eyes could only read large print. Half way through the  entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring  at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. 'It was I who  used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she  said. 'Then it's time that you relax and let me return the  favor,' I responded.
During the dinner, we had an  agreeable conversation-  -nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of  each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the  movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said,  'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me  invite you.' I agreed.
'How was your dinner  date ?' asked my wife when I got home.  'Very nice.  Much more so than I could have imagined,'  I  answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a  massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I  didn't have a chance to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of  a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had  dined. An attached note said: 'I paid this bill in advance.  I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I  paid for two 
plates - one for you and the  other for your wife.  You will never know what that night  meant for me.  I love you, son.'
At that  moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I  LOVE YOU' and to give our loved ones the time that they  deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your  family. Give them the time they deserve, because these  things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'
Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to  normal after you've had a baby..... somebody doesn't know  that once you're a mother, 'normal' is history.
Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct  ... somebody never took a three-year-old shopping.  
Somebody said  being a mother is boring .... somebody never rode in a car  driven by a teenager with a driver's permit.
Somebody said  if you're a'good' mother, your child will 'turn out  good'..... somebody thinks a child comes  with directions and a guarantee.
Somebody said  you don't need an education to be a mother.... somebody  never helped a fourth grader with his math.
Somebody said you can't love the second child as much  as you love the first .... somebody doesn't have two  children.
Somebody said the hardest part of being  a mother is labor and delivery.... somebody never watched her  'baby' get on the bus for the first day of  kindergarten ... or on a plane headed for military 'boot  camp.'
Somebody said a mother can stop worrying  after her child gets married....somebody doesn't know  that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to  a mother's heartstrings.
Somebody said a  mother's job is done when her last child leaves  home.... somebody  never had grandchildren.
Somebody said your mother  knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her....  somebody isn't a mother.  
Pass  this along to all the 'mothers' in your life and to  everyone who ever had a mother. This isn't just about being  a mother; it's about appreciating the people in your life  while you have them....no matter who that person  is.  
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!  a few days early!